You are not the only parent to feel this way about new hearing aids:
“When my baby was young, he wore a headband to keep his hearing aid on, and everyone thought he looked like a girl. I knew in my head that the message I wanted to send my son was that he was perfect the way he was (hearing aid, headband, and all), but I had to struggle not to take it off for photos. As he grew older, his hearing aid became so much a part of him that the thought of removing it no longer even crossed my mind.”
“I didn’t even realize until I got to the photographer’s that I would struggle over whether or not to put his hearing aids on. To be honest, I don't even remember if I did or not. When it was time for pictures again, it would have been strange to take them off. He wore them all the time.”